Alex is Sprintlaw’s co-founder and principal lawyer. Alex previously worked at a top-tier firm as a lawyer specialising in technology and media contracts, and founded a digital agency which he sold in 2015.
When a key team member resigns, it can feel like the rug’s been pulled out from under your business.
You might be thinking: Can we refuse the resignation? Or at least delay it until you’ve found a replacement?
In practice, “refusing resignation” is a common search term because it reflects a very real commercial problem for small businesses. But legally, resignation doesn’t work like a leave request that you can approve or decline.
Note: this article is general information only and isn’t legal advice. Employment situations can turn on the exact wording of the employment agreement and what happens in practice.
Below, we’ll walk you through what New Zealand law generally allows (and doesn’t allow) when an employee resigns, how notice periods really work, and what practical options you can use to protect your business without creating an employment dispute.
Is “Refusing Resignation” Actually Legal In New Zealand?
In most situations, you can’t legally stop an employee resigning in New Zealand.
That’s because resignation is usually a unilateral decision by the employee to end the employment relationship. If they clearly communicate they’re resigning, the employment relationship will typically end after the required notice period (or sooner if the parties agree).
So, while you can absolutely respond, clarify details, and manage the exit process, you generally can’t “refuse” a resignation in the sense of forcing someone to remain employed.
Why Can’t You Simply Say “No”?
Employment relationships are based on agreement and good faith. An employee can decide to end that agreement by resigning. Trying to “decline” a resignation can:
- create confusion about whether the person is still employed;
- increase the risk of a personal grievance claim (for example, if your response is threatening or punitive); and
- lead to operational headaches (like payroll, access to systems, duties, and responsibilities during a period of uncertainty).
What you can do is focus on what you are entitled to enforce, such as the notice period (where it applies) and any lawful obligations during the notice period.
What Counts As A Valid Resignation (And When You Can Push Back)?
Even though you can’t usually refuse resignation, you can take steps to confirm whether a resignation is valid and clear.
Resignations can be given verbally, by email, by text message, or in writing - but problems often arise when the communication is unclear or made “in the heat of the moment”.
Common Situations Where You Should Clarify The Resignation
You should slow things down and confirm details if:
- the employee resigns in anger during a heated conversation;
- the wording is ambiguous (e.g. “I’m done” or “I quit” without context);
- the employee appears unwell or distressed and may not be making a considered decision;
- the resignation is conditional (e.g. “I’ll resign unless you…”); or
- there’s a dispute about the notice period or their intended last day.
A practical approach is to acknowledge what you’ve heard, then ask for confirmation in writing and clarify the intended final date. This protects you if things later escalate into a dispute about whether the employee actually resigned.
It also supports your obligation to act in good faith under the Employment Relations Act 2000 (for example, communicating clearly and not misleading the other party).
If The Employee Tries To Withdraw Their Resignation
Another common “refusing resignation” scenario is the reverse: an employee resigns, then changes their mind and tries to withdraw it.
Whether you must accept the withdrawal depends on the circumstances, including:
- how clear and final the resignation was;
- how quickly they attempted to withdraw it;
- whether you relied on the resignation (e.g. hired someone else); and
- whether any pressure or misunderstanding contributed to the resignation.
This is a situation where getting tailored advice early can save you a lot of risk later.
Notice Periods: What You Can Enforce (Even If You Can’t Refuse Resignation)
For small businesses, the notice period is often the real issue. You might not be able to stop the resignation, but you may be able to require the employee to work their notice (if it’s set out in the employment agreement).
Your Employment Contract should clearly state:
- how much notice the employee must give;
- how notice must be provided (e.g. in writing); and
- any rules about taking leave during the notice period.
Can You Make Them Work Their Notice?
If an employee resigns and their employment agreement requires (say) 4 weeks’ notice, you can generally:
- expect them to work during that period; and
- manage their work as normal (as long as you’re acting reasonably and in good faith).
However, you can’t physically force someone to attend work. If they stop showing up or refuse to perform duties, it becomes a different issue that needs to be managed carefully (for example, through a fair process and by checking what your agreement says). Any approach to “clawing back” pay is also limited - in New Zealand, wages deductions generally require legal authority or the employee’s written consent, and you should be cautious about making deductions without advice.
If your employee resigns without giving notice (or gives less notice than required), it’s worth reading When An Employee Resigns Without Notice Is It Legal to understand the risks and options.
Can You Pay In Lieu Of Notice Instead?
Sometimes you might prefer the employee not to be in the workplace during their notice period (for example, if they’re going to a competitor, or morale is an issue). In those cases, payment in lieu of notice may be an option - but it needs to be handled carefully and ideally be supported by the employment agreement.
Here’s the key point: paying in lieu of notice isn’t automatically available. It usually needs to be provided for in the employment agreement or agreed with the employee at the time (and you still need to meet minimum legal obligations).
For a deeper look at how this is handled in practice, see Payment In Lieu Of Notice.
Can You Put The Employee On Garden Leave?
“Garden leave” is where the employee remains employed and paid through their notice period, but they’re directed not to attend work or perform duties.
Whether you can use garden leave will depend on your employment agreement (or the employee’s agreement at the time) and whether it’s reasonable in the circumstances. If you’re thinking about garden leave, it’s worth getting advice first - especially if there are restraint of trade, confidentiality, or client relationship risks.
What If You Need Them To Stay Longer? Practical Alternatives To Refusing A Resignation
Small business owners often ask about refusing resignation because they’re worried about:
- service delivery (especially if the employee is customer-facing);
- loss of key knowledge;
- health and safety obligations (e.g. you need a certain role covered);
- training and supervision requirements; or
- the cost and time of recruiting.
While you usually can’t refuse resignation, you can often negotiate outcomes that work for both sides.
Option 1: Negotiate A Later End Date
You can ask the employee whether they’d be willing to stay longer than their notice period (or even return on a casual/contractor basis for handover support). This should be documented clearly in writing, including:
- the agreed last day;
- any changes to duties (e.g. handover tasks);
- any additional pay or incentives; and
- how leave will be handled during the extended period.
Option 2: Offer A Short-Term Retention Bonus (Carefully)
Retention incentives can be useful, but they need to be structured carefully to avoid disputes. For example, if you offer a bonus for staying until a particular date, be clear about eligibility and what happens if the employee is sick or unable to work.
This is a good time to get advice, especially if the employee’s exit is already tense.
Option 3: Agree On A Managed Transition
Instead of trying to stop the resignation, focus on a clean transition plan. That might include:
- handover notes and process documentation;
- client introductions;
- return of property (laptop, keys, uniform);
- system access changes; and
- a clear schedule of final payments and deductions (if any).
If there’s already disagreement about what’s happening, a Deed Of Settlement can sometimes help both sides draw a line under the situation and move on with less risk.
Leave, Hours, And Conduct During The Notice Period: What Rules Apply?
Once an employee has resigned, it’s tempting to treat the notice period as “different rules apply.” But most of the usual obligations still continue until the employment officially ends.
Can You Force Them To Take Annual Leave During Notice?
This is a common question for employers, especially if the employee has a large leave balance and you’d prefer they use it up before they go.
In some situations, employers can direct an employee to take annual leave, but there are notice and process requirements (including timing). It’s not as simple as “you’re resigning, so take your leave now”.
If you’re considering that approach, Can An Employee Be Forced To Take Annual Leave is a helpful starting point.
Can You Reduce Their Hours Or Change Their Role Because They’re Leaving?
Be careful here. A resignation doesn’t automatically give you the right to reduce hours, cut shifts, or change duties in a way that disadvantages the employee (unless your agreement allows it and you follow a fair process).
If you’re considering changes to hours during the notice period (for example, due to reduced work availability or roster needs), you should make sure you approach it lawfully and consistently. This article on Reducing Staff Hours explains why these changes can be legally risky without the right process.
Can You Start A Disciplinary Process During Notice?
Yes - if something serious arises (for example, theft, serious misconduct, or breach of confidentiality), you can still investigate and follow a fair process during the notice period.
That said, you should avoid using “discipline” as a punishment for resigning. If your actions look retaliatory, you increase the risk of an employment dispute.
Final Pay: Don’t Leave It Until The Last Minute
Resignations often go off the rails at the very end - usually because of disagreement about money. Make sure you correctly calculate and pay:
- wages up to the last day worked;
- any annual leave owing (and any other leave obligations that apply);
- commission or incentives (if applicable under the agreement); and
- any lawful deductions (only if permitted).
If you’re unsure, it’s worth getting advice before the final payslip goes out.
How To Respond To A Resignation As A Small Business Owner (A Simple Process)
When you’re under pressure, having a consistent resignation process helps you act quickly without making avoidable legal mistakes.
1) Acknowledge And Confirm In Writing
Reply to the resignation (even if it was verbal) and confirm:
- you’ve received the resignation;
- the notice period required by the employment agreement; and
- the proposed final day of employment.
2) Check The Employment Agreement Before You Say Anything Final
Before you negotiate dates or discuss leave, check your Employment Contract for terms about:
- notice requirements;
- garden leave / payment in lieu options;
- confidentiality;
- restraint of trade (if any); and
- commission/bonus clauses that could be triggered by resignation.
3) Decide Whether You Want Them Working Their Notice
Ask yourself:
- Will they be productive and professional during notice?
- Are there confidentiality or client-poaching risks?
- Will their presence harm morale?
If you’re considering payment in lieu, make sure you handle it lawfully (and ideally with advice). The goal is to reduce risk, not create a claim.
4) Plan The Handover Early
Set clear handover deliverables, such as:
- client notes and project status updates;
- password and access handover (where appropriate);
- training a replacement (if available); and
- a schedule for returning business property.
5) Keep Communications Calm And Consistent
Even if you’re frustrated, keep your communications factual and professional. Many “refusing resignation” disputes start because an employer reacts emotionally, then the employee alleges they were bullied, pressured, or misled.
A steady, written paper trail is your best friend if anything later gets challenged.
Key Takeaways
- In New Zealand, an employer generally can’t “refuse” a resignation in the sense of preventing an employee from leaving - resignation is usually a unilateral step by the employee.
- You can clarify whether a resignation is valid and confirm details in writing, especially if it was made in anger or the wording is unclear.
- Even if you can’t stop the resignation, you can often enforce the contractual notice period and manage what work is performed during that time (as long as you act reasonably and in good faith).
- Options like payment in lieu of notice or garden leave can be useful, but they usually need to be supported by the employment agreement (or agreed) and handled carefully.
- Be cautious about changing hours, directing leave, or taking disciplinary action during notice - you still need to act fairly and in good faith.
- A clear resignation process (confirming the last day, planning the handover, and managing final pay properly) reduces the risk of disputes and protects your business.
If you’d like help managing a resignation, updating your employment documents, or reducing the risk of an employment dispute, you can reach us at 0800 002 184 or team@sprintlaw.co.nz for a free, no-obligations chat.


